What is the most effective way to see a person's true personality?
What is the most effective way to see a person’s true personality?
Sean Lana, Bachelor Philosophy of Everyday Life, The College and University Experience (2025)
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- Observe their spending habits. Do they spend money to collect moments or things? People that spend money on things would always buy stuff that they do not need, they are money wasters, stingy and not adventurous!
- Observe the way they treat common people out there, e.g. Beggars, homeless people, waitress, cleaners etc. You can use this to measure their level of sympathy and empathy.
- How do they talk about other people, do they mock, belittle and gossip about them? Such people cannot be trusted!
- During difficulties and challenges in life, observe their behaviour. Are they calm or do they let their emotion overwhelm them? It’s either the person has the confidence or lacks confidence!
- Anytime you are having a conversation with them: can they maintain eye contact or do they avoid eye contact?
- Do you have a friend that remembers you only anytime he or she needs your assistance? It is a sign that the person doesn’t value a deep relationship and he or she is just using you.
▌词汇:
- stingy: spending, using or giving unwillingly; mean 吝啬的; 吝惜的; 小气的: He’s very stingy about lending money. 他非常吝啬, 不愿借钱给别人。
- adventurous: adj. 爱冒险的；大胆的；敢做敢为的；
- sympathy: capacity for) sharing the feelings of others; feeling of pity and sorrow (for sb) 同情; 同情心: feel great sympathy for sb 对某人深为同情；
- empathy: ability to imagine and share another person’s feelings, experience, etc 感情移入, 同感（对他人的感情﹑ 经历等的想像力和感受力）: There is a strange empathy between the old lady and her grandson. 老妇人和她孙子间有种莫名其妙的心灵相通的感觉。
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